This year, I made a vow to live my life without fear and without regret. I decided to take more risks and say yes to myself and to new adventures. Read more in What happens when you say yes to yourself? I'm happier, more fulfilled and I'm loving the woman I've become. I'm now not as … Continue reading Ok, So I Messed Up
I have hard time letting go of relationships...especially romantic relationships. And I'm not the only one. I know of countless women who stick around, hoping that the object of their affection eventually gets their ish together and falls madly in love with them. Mind you, the signs are there; he doesn't communicate consistently; he isn't … Continue reading Let Them Go
Last week in Dear Overthinker I shared about my struggles with overthinking and many of you told me how much you identified with the post. If you constantly ruminate over past events and about how you could have done things differently or if you're always obsessing over something that hasn't even happened yet, working yourself into … Continue reading How to Stop Overthinking
If I were given a magic wand and with it the ability to change something about myself, I'd tap my midsection and make it disappear. Be gone! Haha. But honestly, I'd probably erase my propensity to overthink. I have the habit (yes it's a habit) of being stuck in my own head sometimes; over analyzing … Continue reading Dear Overthinker
I've always had a hard time saying no to everyone else... but myself. Even when I was actually able to say no to others, I had guilt. Guilt of letting them down or perhaps not being perfect in their eyes. I finally realized during this past year that I didn't have healthy boundaries in my … Continue reading What happens when you say yes to yourself?
When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us. - Alexander Bell. Last year I was looking a for a new job and after a few rounds of interviews at a facility, … Continue reading When One Door Closes, Another Opens.
We met at this hole in the wall cafe known for its live music. The atmosphere was perfect. He was no M'Baku but good gosh was he attractive! And he was my type (physically) too. Mmm, mmm, mmmmmmm! And not only that, he was also charming and funny. The chemistry was great. We enjoyed each … Continue reading He didn’t call.